Ignite Your Power, Burn Your Limits and Live with Purpose.

The pressures on you as a man are intense.

Being a Partner. Being a Parent. Being a Provider.

Not to mention showing up for yourself as a man personally (from your health and your fitness to your connection to yourself and your creator), which most of us ignore.

The demands and expectations are constant and from every direction. And there sure as hell isn’t any rulebook for winning at this. We weren’t set up to succeed as young men.

Instead we inherited a broken framework for being a Man: Stuff. Suppress. Sacrifice. Suck it Up. Save Face.

But, like a good boy, you followed the rules…

You got married. You had kids. You built a career and pumped all your energy into your business so you could provide. At least you felt like you could control and crush it in that area of your life. And you did, to the point of success many dream of. 

You checked all the boxes, brother:

Wife. check

Kids. check

Dogs. check

Successful business. check.

The cars... the vacations... the bigger, better upgrade ring for your wife... the toys... check, check, check!

So then, why do you still feel like sh!t?

Overwhelmed. Check.

Empty and unfulfilled. Check.

Stagnated. Check.

A marriage devoid of passion + intimacy - the love and sex dried up. Check.

A subpar connection with your children. Check.

Years of bottled up emotions to the point of numbness. Check.

Painful anxiety and fear. Check.

Hopelessness creeping in. Check.

Desperation. Check.

Feeling lost. Check.

Sure, your marriage looks “good” from the outside.

Man, your life looks really fantastic from the outside.

But inside, you can’t deny it… it feels like a LIE. 

You feel TRAPPED.

Part of you just wants to run away. Yet you see no exit and no end in sight. Another part of you would do nearly anything to turn it around. Yet you don’t see any paths to do so.

You fear for what will become of it all. Your thoughts start to run amok and threaten you in a real way. They get uglier, darker, more convincing, more critical. Battling with yourself internally, beating yourself up for not being able to figure it out. The shame of not being able to figure it out (...of not being good enough…) is eating at you. I feel you Brother. I know your pain.

It’s absolutely maddening, what you’ve been up against.

You need to know that YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

And hear me when I tell you that you will not survive inside this prison that you’ve built for yourself. It is a slow f*cking death that sucks the soul out of you…. 

ENOUGH. YOU DESERVE MORE THAN THIS.

It’s time to stop running.

It’s time to stop avoiding.

It’s time to wake up and face the man in the mirror.

It’s time to COME HOME TO THE TRUE YOU.

There is good news for you my brother, tremendous news…

Inside of you is a POWER that is UNBREAKABLE.

UN f”cking SHAKEABLE.

It’s a fire in your heart and in your soul, just waiting to be claimed.

The time has come to Heal Your Pain and IGNITE that POWER. To reclaim the Power of who you came here to be.

To harness that POWER and use it to create the life that’s been waiting for you: Lighting up your Manhood, your Marriage, your Money, and your Mission.

I call you forward to this with deep love, standing for you -because not only have I stood alongside thousands of brothers just like you and shown them the way... but I have also personally walked this road myself.

I used to shrink.

I used to hide.

I used to lie to myself that my life was good enough…. 

Until that voice inside of me grew louder and louder and I had the courage to face the truth that was seeking me out… no more settling for mediocrity, no more masquerading as if everything was great.

It began with believing I needed to check those boxes

I had a successful career that I really loved.

I was having fun in my marriage and being a good boy

… who occasionally partied a little too much

.… who may just have flirted every now and again with a cute waitress

.… who didn’t like to ruffle feathers, focused on being liked and saving face.

And then my wife had an affair and it all unraveled.

I had to take a brutal and long look in the mirror, and start getting truly honest with myself. I really wasn’t showing up for my wife and most definitely wasn’t showing up for myself.

I was built for so much more than how I was living and how I was showing up.

I started making changes.I went looking for and hiring mentors and coaches – some of the best in the business.

And while I was on that part of my journey, going deep and starting to really get a sense of who I was…

That’s when my father’s health really deteriorated and dementia took him away a piece at a time. Through the end of my father’s life, I saw the same generational pattern play out – he lost more of his sense of self worth as he lost more and more of his net worth.

And here I was… and I didn’t have the financial resources to get my father the care I wanted for him and he deserved.

I made a promise – to myself and my dad – that I will not repeat this pattern.

Here’s what I’ve learned.

Life will bring you challenges, brother. That is undeniable.

“Fires” constantly popping up, stretching you thin as you’re pulled in every direction to put them out. 

The Question is: What will you do in the face of them?

Do you shrink or do you RISE?

Shrinking is the trap a lot of men fall into, like I did.

You lie to yourself.

You tolerate.

 And it eats at your insides, relentlessly, undetected.

But the mask you hide behind starts wearing thin.

The pain pushing you to the point where you fall into the deeper trap of denial + distraction: using work, weed, alcohol, achieving, titles, affairs, porn, money, projecting false strength to numb out and avoid facing and confronting your life in the ways it’s begging you to.

And this incredibly difficult series of chapters in my life began the spark that ignited into Man On FIRE.

My pain would become power.The wounds would reveal gifts.

I had to confront my own game and the soul-sucking ways I had played small and sold myself short.

And now I have the honor of supporting other men to take the same journey so they can finally live into the men they were born to be. 

It’s time to SHIFT, brother.

All of these “Fires” are intended to shape us as men:

to wake us up and shake us into showing the f*ck up…

The way your wife deserves.

The way your family deserves.

The way your soul deserves.

Some men fear the fire, some become it.

At Man on FIRE we hold these fires as sacred: Be burned or Be BORN.

And now after 10 years and over ten thousand men served just like you,I am even more deeply committed to walking you down the road and showing you the proven path to ignite the power of who you came here to be. To light that inextinguishable fire of passion and purpose.

To set you up with a strong, connected and confident inner game so that you can crush it externally. To  f*cking celebrate with you as you come home to who you truly are and claim your birthright to create everything you deserve in your marriage + manhood.

This is your personal invitation to get off the sideline and get in the game. Your life is waiting for you to step up and rise.

Let’s get you Fired UP, brother. You deserve this.

All my love,

DAVID MEHLER

MOF Founder + Chairman

LEAVE NO F*CKING MAN BEHIND.

TOGETHER WE RISE.

A Man on FIRE:

  • LIVES WITH PASSION, POWER & PURPOSE

  • IS GROUNDED, ROOTED & IMPERTURBABLE

  • HAS TRADED IN WANTING TO BE LIKED FOR SELF RESPECT & BOUNDARIES

  • LIVES FROM HIS HEART NOT HIS HEAD

  • IS GUIDED BY HIS INTUITION & REFUSES TO BETRAY HIMSELF

  • REFUSES TO PLAY SMALL & HAS THE COURAGE TO LIVE INTO HIS FULL POTENTIAL

  • BUILDS OTHERS UP

  • IS COMMITTED TO PROTECTING THE HEARTS OF THE FEMININE

  • HAS COMPASSION & EMPATHY FOR HIMSELF & OTHERS

  • HAS COURAGEOUSLY ACCEPTED THE INVITATION TO LIVE INTO THE MASCULINE LEADER HE WAS BORN TO BE

  • HONORS THE RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS CREATOR

  • HAS LIVED FULLY SO THAT HIS LAST BREATH WILL BE ONE OF FREEDOM RATHER THAN ONE OF REGRET

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